Hi @Anonymous
Can you please post a screenshot of the current flow?
You can use the Update Item in sharepoint action to update the item in list 2 whenever an item is updated in List 2.
You can add a get items action after the trigger and modify the filter query to get the items that match some unique value in List 2 from List1. Only if there is a match you will get just one value and you can update it in case of updating and the item already exists. Now if the item is new, you can check the length of the items retrieved in the get items and if it is 0 create a new item in list 2. (Makes sense?)
Hope this Helps!
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