Hi BCBuizer, thank you for your quick reply. Doesn't exactly worked, maybe I'm applying incorrectly.
with DataValueCard6 applied the following. to the DisplayMode
DataCardValue6 DisplayMode field

In preview, with no item selected for the Exterior DataCardValue4, DataCardValue6 is disabled

when an item is selected for Exterior DataCardValue4, DataCardValue6 is disabled

We tried the following, not terrible but works somewhat, added to DataCardValue6 displaymode
If(IsBlank(DataCardValue4.Selected),DisplayMode.Edit,Disabled)
and added to DataValueCard4 displaymode
If(IsBlank(DataCardValue6.Selected),DisplayMode.Edit,Disabled)
We believe we would prefer something more along the lines of, by selecting one, the other is erase/cleared and vice-versa. Also, when the requestor clicks the Save button for the form, it checks if one of the 2 lookup fields has a value deifned and if false, notify the requestor of the required missing value.
Your help is greatly appreciated!