I want to do something similar, just maybe not as difficult. I have a form attached to SharePoint list B that has yes and no buttons on it. When the "Yes" button is clicked I want to update the status field on SharePoint list A to "Yes". When the "No" button is clicked I want to update the status field to "Not Needed". (I will set the status field's default to "No").

 

So, the Status field in SharePoint list A  will have 3 values (Yes, No, Not Needed), It will be No by default. Then either "Yes" or "Not Needed" by clicking the buttons in the other form which the data source is SharePoint list B. Both SP lists have an ID column that share the same value. 

 

So can I reference the form's record ID number, and update the matching ID record on the other list appropriately based on which button was pressed?