@mmills This kind of date and time format can only be achieved via a calculated column. It cannot be achieved by directly formatting the Date and Time column for the time being. But what you can do, just go to site setting of sharepoint and then navigate or search for regional setting then change the format according to your need.
Please check below screenshot as a reference
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